Change what user Plex runs as

for #3 it should work like this:

Stop plex if it is running
>sudo service plexmediaserver stop

Edit the plexmediaserver file

sudo nano /etc/default/plexmediaserver
scroll down to
PLEX_MEDIA_SERVER_USER=plex ← change this to the username you want to use
save changes

Modify groups

sudo addgroup plex youruser
sudo addgroup youruser plex

then start plex again

sudo service plexmediaserver start