for #3 it should work like this:
Stop plex if it is running >sudo service plexmediaserver stopEdit the plexmediaserver file
sudo nano /etc/default/plexmediaserver
scroll down to
PLEX_MEDIA_SERVER_USER=plex ← change this to the username you want to use
save changesModify groups
sudo addgroup plex youruser
sudo addgroup youruser plexthen start plex again
sudo service plexmediaserver start