I am about to embark on creating a plex media database and want to use a NAS as my server. I am looking at either the QNAP TS-453D, Synology DS920+ or Austor AS6604T. The specs are pretty similar with only a few differences here and there. I am curious of what is recommended between these devices - software, reliability, ease of navigation, etc. I am wanting to start with Two 2 or 4TB drives and just add drives or increase space as needed. Also, I will only stream one, maybe two streams at a time and most of my files will be 1080p with occasional 480p, 720p and 4k. I doubt I will need to transcode very often.
Considering this, how much RAM is needed? 4gb or 8gb? Also, should I install NVMe for caching or will it really make a difference? I assume each of these devices are hot-swappable and if so, does it require a special raid configuration to do that? Lastly, should I start with three 2tb drives or two 4tb drives - what makes more sense from a stability and future-proofing standpoint?