Store the List or Grid view mode into each Playlist and Collection (smart or normal)

All you need to do is to set your preferred sorting order before you save the playlist or collection.

This applies to smart playlists and smart collections.

A ‘dumb’ playlist cannot be sorted, unfortunately.
But there is already a feature request for that. So please vote on this, instead of creating a new feature request: Playlist sorting and searching feature request

Regular collections can already be sorted title and release date, as well as be sorted completely manually. https://support.plex.tv/articles/201273953-collections#toc-5