Technical details below.
I am posting here as a last resort - I have exhausted every single thing I can think of to resolve this issue, and I can’t even be certain it is related to Plex specifically. But I’m desperate at this point.
Description of the problem:
I host a Plex media server with remote access enabled and working. I recently moved about 20 miles from my previous home, and suddenly one of my most frequent users cannot stream from me anymore. Never had any problems prior to the move. I have 3-4 regular users, plus myself, who can stream remotely perfectly fine as long as I have available upload. Nothing in my setup changed - same ISP, same hardware and wired identically, same state and general area. The hardware was literally powered off, moved, and turned back on. The only noteworthy thing that changed is my public IP range, changing from a 63.x.x.x to a 206.x.x.x.
When this user attempts to stream, the media will load, but after approximately 15-20 seconds it will buffer, and from that point it will buffer continuously after that same interval. It usually recovers after buffering to resume playback, but it will always buffer again after that 15-20 second time period.
When monitoring the dashboard, my remote upload does not even get close to my max upload speed. Remote traffic shows up in intervals, but doesn’t look too far off from when other users stream. It also doesn’t seem to coincide with the buffering itself.
This buffering occurs with videos of any size, even short 480p TV episodes - though the buffering interval is a few seconds longer.
Playback never fails outright - no errors or “Cannot play media” warnings, and nothing in the logs as far as I can tell, though It’s possible there are other logs I’m not aware of. I have checked both the Plex console and docker logs for the container.
I am less concerned with this and am only including it incase it’s valuable: I have also had similar issues with PlexAmp since moving, where I am only able to stream non-cached music when connected to WiFi, regardless of where I am (local or remote). For whatever reason, when on cell service I can load the library and navigate it normally, but playback buffers forever and never starts. This is with FLAC audio files, so much smaller than video.
WHAT WE HAVE TRIED:
- Multiple clients - Apple TV, Windows 10 DT app, web browser (FF and Edge) - all configured to stream at ‘Original/Maximum’ to avoid transcoding.
- Streaming over a VPN
- Hosting a Tailscale subnet-router as a container on the same Proxmox host, then having the user access the server via IP and stream while connected to the Tailnet. I confirmed that the Tailscale connection is providing access to my subnets.
- The user is in another state - confirmed that both out-of-state and even out-of-country remote streaming works for other users. One test was from a user typically in the same state as me, so that same account could stream both in and out of state.
- Changing the port Plex is operating with and adjusting port forwarding accordingly.
- Adding the user to Plex home.
Notable Plex settings:
- Video transcoding is OFF.
- Enable Relay is OFF.
- Limit Remote Stream Bitrate = No Limit
- Secure connections = Preferred
- No plugins are installed
My setup is as follows:
- Plex Media Server v1.42.1.10060 running in a docker container, inside a Debian VM on top of Proxmox. (Several layers of virtualization, I know, but I have reasons for it. If this was affecting all users, I’d be more inclined to suspect that as the cause.)
- My router and networking equipment is all Unifi - specific firmware can be provided if useful. Port forwarding is enabled for Plex and points to the VM hosting it.
- My ISP is GCI, a local provider here in Alaska. They suck, but not sure that would explain this problem. They are also my only option in my area.
- The remote user is in Oklahoma.
Final Thoughts
I just want to reiterate that this same user could stream perfectly fine prior to my move. They were my most active user by far. I work in IT and have exhausted every troubleshooting angle I can think of, aside from nuking the server and setting up a new one. It makes no sense to me that simply moving 20 miles away would cause this. The only thing I can think of, is that maybe somehow Plex is falling back to the relay somehow for this one user, despite it being disabled? They are the farthest person from me, for whatever that’s worth.
Thank you for reading and any insight. I am happy to supply any other information that may be helpful. I also understand this may not be a Plex issue specifically.

