Unshared library notifications

I have some questions about unshared library notifications.

I share a movie and show library with my family, and I also have personal libraries for LGBTQ+ movies and shows. Every time I add a movie to my shared libraries other people get the notifications which I’m ok with since they have access to those libraries.

My question is that since my LGBTQ+ libraries aren’t shared with them, will they still get notifications for those unshared libraries, or will I only get them.

They should only get notifications for libraries/content they have access to, not the server as a whole.