I know folks aren’t attacking me personally, but I do request accuracy when responding to what I do write.
I will restate
I do understand your side of this problem.
I have 3 AppleTV 4K units here in the house.
EVERY ONE of them now sits in the drawer.
I bought 3 Nvidia Shield 2019 ($212 each).
I am retired (64 years old), and disabled (stroke) , and now recovering from a major heart attack (right coronary artery blockage - 3x25mm stent).
Regarding:
I think you missed where I shared as much as I think I can.
I’m sorry I can’t make it more clear for you.
You mean this one?
Already tried.
I think the bottom line for me is my age and disability. I think it’s finally catching up.
The heart attack showed me just how “Not Indestructibly Young” I am now 
lol
As for the remote on the phone? I stand a better chance trying to use my Apple Watch! 
When you say “Hey Siri” and the every TV changes – NOT GOOD
