I have gone through the step by step in adding people to my server with access. On my side it shows that they are in the category of “Libraries Requests Sent”. On their side it shows that they have accepted the friend request, but cant see my libraries. I can see them as friends without access
I have tried to cancel and re-send the request, but still the same result. Not sure were to go from here now.
I see there are 2 pending invites on your server. Which means the recipients of these invitations need to accept them first.
Tell them to take a look at their respective Profile pages, and click on the Requests button.