it seems I cant find a way to delete recording after viewing on my AppleTV I have to do this on my iPhone or server. Any thoughts on how to delete immediately after watch on AppleTV in that user interface?
You can enable deleting of media in your server library settings. after you do there will be a delete option for items (which only the server admin account can use) in every app.
I have that box checked and I can delete from all my other hardware: iphone, ipad, and mac but not from the AppleTV …so is there something else I am missing or is it not built into the AppleTV app
Long-press on a library item brings up the context menu and Delete is included.
