hi all,
Im a network admin for a living, so i know how to forward ports and verify they are actually forwarded. Pretty direct problem/question: If i set secure = Preferred (or required), then almost all of my remote clients/friends who connected end up showing up as indirect (ie tunneled via plex/aws and 2mbit limit).
I have set the plex server (windows nic) to use 1.1.1.1 as its dns (to rule out dns-rebinding protection, even though that should only affect local network streams, and my issue is remote streams).
Ofcourse plex Remote Access shows as " Fully accessible outside your network" . note i am using a non standard port (im using 23500 -> 32400), and i have verified this is externally accessible/properly forwarded.
can anyone help / offer suggestions? this is killing my plex server/experience for friends I dont really mind running secure=disabled, except for the annoying messages that pop-up on various plex apps/clients about connection being insecure.
do i need to buy and apply a custom SSL cert (and setup a real dns to resolve to my plex server / pub IP maybe?)
“Treat WAN IP As LAN Bandwidth” is checked off (but again, i think this applies only to local, LAN connections, which im not having any issues with, its only remote connections)
Server Version#: Version 1.17.0.1709 (same issue with 1.16.x)
windows 2012r2 server
thanks!

