Wow… that post definitely deserves a TL;DR summary.
There’s a guide on how to overcome obstacles of 4K.
To be super open – playing 4K over WIFI is definitely going to be a gamble in any setup. At least if you’re dealing with a halfway decent bitrate. There’s way too many roadblocks and and pitfalls when it comes to WIFI playback… that’s by the way not specific to 4K but can already happen with Blu-Ray quality 1080p content.