Be able to drag and drop "up next" songs/tracks in plexamp for iOS

You can already do that.
The trick is to first long press on the track, until its background gets a bit darker.
then you can drag it down or upwards.

If you swipe a track to the left (without pressing long beforehand), you can remove it from the play queue.

Please see [How To] Plexamp 3.0 for more tips.