I saw this response in another thread: Media Server Crashing Frequently (Possibly Caused By Loading Files?) - #2 by Atomatth
So I wanted to check for those things mentioned there too, desperate times and all. Since it crashes during launch I never get to the GUI, but I found DlnaEnabled and EnableIPv6 in the registry, both were already set to 0. I’m not sure which registry key could correspond to the relay setting?
