Can someone please help me once and for all with the remote access?

Yeah that’s it.

So a couple things can you first check under settings, network in Plex and see if you have ipv6 enabled?

Second if it’s enabled and checked disable it in Plex.

If it’s not enabled leave it unchecked and disable ipv6 on that screen shot you just posted and check again.

Sorry I have been away. nokdim, that was it!!! Unreal! disabling ipv6 fixed it. I thank you very much my man for your free help and not giving up on me.