PlexMediaServer-1.20.2.3402-0fec14d92-x86_64.spk cant manually install

You install it using the Synology Package Center.

See Installation & Setup of Plex Media Server on Synology

Specifically, Installing Plex Media Center. Scroll down to Downloading from Plex and performing “Manual Install” method.

Using Package Manager, you will need to uninstall the version you’re running now before installing the update.